The Wonderful Writing Skills (Un) Handbook

Empathy To Empathic

The (Enticing) Empathic Page:

 

Hey! The word is EMPATHIC; it is not empathetic! That's it! End of story!


I'm just guessing, here, but I think what happens is that people confuse the prononciation of empathy/empathic with apathy/apathetic.

I guess that's what happened. And though I am naturally disposed to a kindly, inclusive temperment, this is one screw up that I really, really hate for some reason.

I even saw "empathetic" in the New Yorker! Yuck!

Mary Fepernoogle has a great deal of empathy. She is an empathic sort of gal!

Won't you please join me? Together we can stamp out this attrocious stain on our great culture! Here's how:

  • Never say or write empathetic when you mean empathic!
  • Never let your friends, lovers, live in partners or family members get away with saying or writing empathetic when they mean empathic. A simple slap in the face will usually get their attention.
  • Write your congressman (if he can read), demanding impeachment for any legislative guy using empathetic instead of empathic.

 


Ok, ok.  So I'm being  a tad dogmatic here.  It's my program!  Since there exist a couple of dictionaries (ie American  but not Webster's Collegiate) that allow for "empathetic" (choke), and since I have elsewhere declared in this program that language does and should evolve, I'll have to let it slide. 

You might enjoy Googling "empathetic" to see what the Net in general thinks.  

 And, most assuredly, see the quote from my friend, Charles Murray in the comments section below.  While you're there, put in your own thoughts.


To return to Step Two, click: HERE

Comments

From Vic Kryston - 2008-02-13

An email from Charles Murray:

Okay, here's the OED entries, but I don't see any indication that one is preferred over the other. The first date for empathic _precedes_ the one for empathetic, for sure, but that's all (and look how new both words are!). Theodore Bernstein doesn't mention either word one way or the other (in The Careful Writer). So what's the basis for throwing out empathetic?



For empathic:
    Of, relating to, or involving empathy; having empathy to or with  (persons, etc.). Hence empathically  adv.

1909   E. B. TITCHENER Lect. Exper. Psychol. Thought-Processes v. 181 They shade off gradually into those empathic experiences which I mentioned in the first Lecture.  Ibid. 185 The [mental] picture is combined with an empathic attitude. 1914  R. M. OGDEN Introd. Gen. Psychol. II. xiv. 195 A prominent feature of the aesthetic sentiment..is its empathic character.  1929C. J. DUCASSE Philos. Art x. 151 This way of reacting in the presence of the statue constitutes the empathic way.  Ibid. 154 We can if we wish..perceive empathically also lines, surfaces, motions. 1957 C. BROOKE-R OSE Langs. of Love iv. 32 She had sunk to crossword puzzles, and was becoming empathic with the mind of the man on the Daily Chronicle.   1957  W. H. WHYTEOrganization Man 407 Be empathic to the values of the test maker.


For empathetic:
    =  EMPATHIC a. Hence empa thetically adv.

1932 Nation (N.Y.) 13 Apr. 432 The method..condemns the biographer to immerse himself in his subject's mind, to take a view that is more than 'sympathetic', that is indeed empathetic. 1933 Archit. Rev. LXXIV. 222/1 What newly erected buildings have now any 'empathetic' influence on those they contain? 1949  KOESTLER Insight & Outlook xxvi. 359 The richer the personality..the more empathetic understanding of others it will be capable of.  1961 Listener 31 Aug. 326/3 Backache on my part, empathetically produced by those ingenious and toiling rice-planters. 1963  H. READ Contrary Experience III. ix. 280 We both spring from the same yeoman stock.., and I think I have a certain 'empathetic' understanding of his personality.

 

 

Then I wrote back
Vic Kryston to Charles
show details 12/23/07
   
Reply

Ok, I'll give you the adverb, but, by gum, I'm hanging on to the adjective!  The main reason to throw out that other word is its high level of offensiveness.  (Offensivisticness?)
Sincerelistically,
Victor


 

Site

Changes
Index
Search

User

Log In

 
 

Last Modified 2008-02-13